uhh at the risk of stating the obvious, i think you’re missing a whole lot of context here.
the reason why “fuckboys are gross” is mostly because they’re obnoxious, loud, stinky, and annoy the shit out of everyone in their environment because they believe they’re better than everyone else, everyone else has to subdue to them and the whole “fucking” is actually just about projecting power. that’s what’s annoying.
and that’s not what’s happening here. i don’t see any “projection of power” in violet’s posts.
But you can’t actually reverse roles as a direct 1:1 because women’s sexuality, bodily autonomy, authority aren’t treated equal to men’s. It’s inherently different because there isn’t actually a direct inverse. I do think a post similar to this about a cute femboy wearing something similar in a similar situation would be getting upvotes and comments.
Your comment just reads like “you can be a man or be political” and think people only like this because it’s “political” aka woke but there shouldn’t be anything woke about a woman being sexually liberated, practicing choice and autonomy or refusing to conform, she has every right and I support that.
Did you make the /s super small? Like you wanted the littlest deniability that you weren’t serious. We know you’re kidding, it’s just a weak joke. Like they’re discussing feminism on Lemmy to get laid? Get some better material
Yes, I did make the /s super small like I wanted the littlest deniability that I wasn’t serious. I am super glad you know I’m kidding. You’re right it is a weak joke. No, not like they are discussing feminism on Lemmy to get laid, but that it was an attempt to characterize the comment as white knighting or simping. Thank you for the joke critique. I promise to do better, so you aren’t disappointed at my attempts at humor in the future.
The difference is power structures and cultural incentives. Fuckboys tend to not react pleasantly to being turned down. I get more “himbo” (keeping the male parallel theme going) vibes from Violet. She’s down to clown, isn’t afraid to let that be known, but nothing screams that anything nonconsensual is happening here.
People fuck, who cares? She doesn’t appear to be hurting anyone. Her posts are funny, it doesn’t need to be deep.
I don’t get it. We can all agree that fuccbois and PUAs are gross, but we’re all celebrating this person’s recent posts?
If this were a white guy bragging about how easy it is to bang Korean MILFs, y’all would not be in here with the same type of comments.
uhh at the risk of stating the obvious, i think you’re missing a whole lot of context here.
the reason why “fuckboys are gross” is mostly because they’re obnoxious, loud, stinky, and annoy the shit out of everyone in their environment because they believe they’re better than everyone else, everyone else has to subdue to them and the whole “fucking” is actually just about projecting power. that’s what’s annoying.
and that’s not what’s happening here. i don’t see any “projection of power” in violet’s posts.
Fuccbois and pua aren’t honest about their intentions.
She is honest.
But you can’t actually reverse roles as a direct 1:1 because women’s sexuality, bodily autonomy, authority aren’t treated equal to men’s. It’s inherently different because there isn’t actually a direct inverse. I do think a post similar to this about a cute femboy wearing something similar in a similar situation would be getting upvotes and comments.
Your comment just reads like “you can be a man or be political” and think people only like this because it’s “political” aka woke but there shouldn’t be anything woke about a woman being sexually liberated, practicing choice and autonomy or refusing to conform, she has every right and I support that.
Bro, she ain’t gonna fuck you
/s
I was expecting this comment though lol, but girls support girls is my motto
lol, you’re all good. I actually agree with you 1000% 🖖
Did you make the /s super small? Like you wanted the littlest deniability that you weren’t serious. We know you’re kidding, it’s just a weak joke. Like they’re discussing feminism on Lemmy to get laid? Get some better material
Yes, I did make the /s super small like I wanted the littlest deniability that I wasn’t serious. I am super glad you know I’m kidding. You’re right it is a weak joke. No, not like they are discussing feminism on Lemmy to get laid, but that it was an attempt to characterize the comment as white knighting or simping. Thank you for the joke critique. I promise to do better, so you aren’t disappointed at my attempts at humor in the future.
/s
i fucking hate /s so now i’m gonna think of you every time i type /s, the sarcastic /s
/s should mean /shramp not /sarcastic let’s be real about what’s more common here
PUAs? Is violet negging groups of guys or getting them drunk so she can rape them?
The difference is power structures and cultural incentives. Fuckboys tend to not react pleasantly to being turned down. I get more “himbo” (keeping the male parallel theme going) vibes from Violet. She’s down to clown, isn’t afraid to let that be known, but nothing screams that anything nonconsensual is happening here.
People fuck, who cares? She doesn’t appear to be hurting anyone. Her posts are funny, it doesn’t need to be deep.
I can smell jealousy from a mile away, man. If you want to wear a skimpy outfit, by all means.
Violet is super annoying but I guess guys like a thirsty, horny Lemmy user? For all we know, it’s a guy.
Still more fun than a scold, no?
i mean, who’s doing the scolding?
does it end with me having a pony named Clopsifer?
so like, it didnt even cross my mind that this fit was to get some dick, but rather about being different even though one is shy
What’s a PUA?
Pick-up artist