Me and my SO are both adults and yes we communicate about household chores. Crazy concept right?
Sometimes she’s busy and asks if I could do the dishes. Sometimes it’s the other way around.
Of course most of the time we both simply take care of chores when they need to be done. But we don’t have assigned tasks in the household: we both cook, clean, do laundry, etc. And sometimes we communicate about who does what.
Me and my SO are both adults and yes we communicate about household chores. Crazy concept right?
Sometimes she’s busy and asks if I could do the dishes. Sometimes it’s the other way around.
Of course most of the time we both simply take care of chores when they need to be done. But we don’t have assigned tasks in the household: we both cook, clean, do laundry, etc. And sometimes we communicate about who does what.
…yeah that’s how it’s supposed to work.
Getting resentful and refusing to do a chore out of spite because your partner asked is the unhealthy part I was referencing.