• emptiness@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    “No, I am not menstruating.” “No, I have never been pregnant.” I tell them I’m a trans woman. “No, they did not implant a uterus in me.” “Yes, I’m sure. 😅”

    I’ve also made a mental note to not pee before doctor’s visits, in case they want me to pee for them.

    Going to the doctor hits different now.

    • Apathy Tree@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      3 days ago

      I routinely decline urine and blood tests because I got my tubes tied in my 20s and have been on merana for years, both clearly documented in my files. My doctors still somehow magically find a way to treat me without it.

      Just food for thought :) I’m sure not every doctor is willing to respect your privacy, but some are :)

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      That sounds exhausting. I’m sorry that you’re met with so much ignorance and disrespect. I would probably complain to the patient ombudsman if this is a recurring issue.

      I think there’s been some spotlight on the sad state of women’s healthcare in the news, but I’ve not seen much about trans care. I hope that improves, but I’m not optimistic under the current administration.

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        I’m not optimistic under the current administration.

        That is what I like to call “a gross understatement”.