Everything that takes the mind off of all the stress of contemporary life.
Playing guitar, riding a bike, reading a book…
But who am a kidding, when I play guitar i often plays chords off the internet to the background music from YouTube. When i ride my bike i listen to podcasts. And when I read a book, i do it on Kindle.
I love my time on my bicycle and my time spent fixing it up.
I really enjoy board games and ttrpgs
Also huge fan of getting the tar beaten out of me in my local kink scene, but that’s not a hobby for everyone
Oh and the wife has gotten me hiking more with her, which has been good for us both
Cross stitch and jigsaw puzzles
Arson.
Off-what? You mean in meatspace?
Jokes aside: Reading. Designing and playing Pen&Paper RPGs. Cooking.
Would you mind talking a bit more about your approach to cooking? I take some satisfaction from being able to cook and sometimes from the feeling of improving my skill as a cook, but mostly it feels like a necessary chore.
Sure! But it’s not particularly sophisticated. Other than staple recipes (like e.g. vegetables stews) I learned while growing up, when there’s a product I was previously dependent on buying ready-made that gets enshittified by the food industry so much I’m unwilling to pay the full asking price, I start looking into the recipe for it and experiment to calibrate quality, time efficiency, and material cost to the exact tradeoff I consider best for me. Frozen pizza vs self made pizza being one example.
My joy in cooking, aside from the above optimization process I find fun, comes from knowning I pay less money to eat a better quality (and almost always less unhealthy) meal than I’d otherwise be able to. Once I have a recipe dialed in, it also requires virtually no thinking to get done, which is the opposite of my daily work; that’s the “unwinding” for me. I can then also combine it with listening to some audiobook or TTRPG actual play / podcast.
Due to this depth-first approach my actual list of recipes isn’t incredibly large, but it’s enough to never get boring by now, at least.
Going for a walk is an essential activity for me to reset. Riding my bike has a similar effect. I’ve started leaving my phone at home.
Reading as well. Something light-hearted if I’m seeking joy.
I have a small garden on my balcony. It’s not successful right now but it’s enjoyable to watch something green grow.
What about playing FTL? :)
I’m with you on everything except gardening. It sounds appealing in the abstract, but then in the spring it turns into “ugh, too much to do” and “ugh, gotta get up early to water” in the summer.
Actually…what DID get you into gardening in the first place? Maybe there’s something to it that I’m missing.
Ayy you got the reference!
I started because I wanted to grow Thai holy basil which I was struggling to find in stores, extended to different varieties of kind of pricey hot peppers, then a few flowers to keep it looking nice. I’ve had a few bad seasons over the years that made me almost quit but at this point it would feel weird to not have a garden to take care of.
The maintenance can occasionally be a pain but it’s sometimes nice to have a good reason to get up early. It only becomes too much work if I get greedy and take on too many plants at once. I try to keep it to a small and manageable amount, and choose plants that don’t require a lot of care.
Sex
This guy fucks
Good one, fellow adult. I too have had the sex. Many. 150%
Gardening, walking in forests :)
Litter picking is also a very in-the-moment activity, like an IRL hidden object game.
I’d also say that I read a lot, but I do it on an ebook reader, so it doesn’t feel properly offline 😅
I love forests, especially when the terrain is rugged enough to straddle the line between hiking and freeclimbing.
For books, I like the feel of turning the pages by hand, but I won’t begrudge anyone their e-reader!
Litter picking is a great suggestion.
Litter picking seems like a blast. Dry litter is just fun to clean up.
Painting. You can get a decent brush set, as many colors of acrylic paint as you need to make just about any color you’d want, and a few canvases for around $40.
Riding my escooter through the local parks.
Sounds fun, but the people in the park may have a different opinion 😅
Outdoor back-to-basics stuff has only proven more beneficial the more I have integrated it into my life.
Carpentry, landscaping, gardening, and taking care of my many animals all help me get fresh air and exercise in addition to whatever else I get out of the activities.
I am living the superposition of that meme where the resume or linkedin profile goes from Senior Systems Architect to Goose Farmer. My day job is software for embedded systems. At home, in addition to the indoor projects I am slowly transforming my little fenced-in back yard into a combination of oasis, hobby farm, and town from an old RPG or zelda game.
Pottery or papier-mâché. Or any other sort of creative type stuff. Also, digging holes. Wizardry and such. There’s so much to do, really.
Music. I have a degree in Music History, but I haven’t made a living with it for 25 years, although I still loved music.
During COVID, I was bored, and eating, so I took up guitar again, after leaving it behind decades ago. I’ve played every day since, and not only reached an intermediate level (far better than I ever was in the past), but I’ve also lost 100 pounds, by picking up my guitar instead of going to the fridge.
Now I’m experimenting with recording, using cheap used gear, and having a blast.
Playing on a PSP, those portable systems are still awesome.
I play guitar, read, and do a bit of yardwork.
