I ask because I caught myself being a huge hypocrite again.

I’m a millennial and I criticized a Gen Z friend for her constant use of the word ‘lowkey.’

I then realized do I not do the same thing? I often say ‘sorta’ or ‘kinda’ when I do just mean I did the thing in the same way she uses ‘lowkey.’

No, I didn’t ‘kinda’ delete a guy’s account at my stupid IT job. I DELETED HIS ACCOUNT! I didn’t ‘sorta’ leave too late for work. I FUCKING LEFT LATE!

So I am a massive fucking hypocrite who needs to just let Gen Z chill and do what the want as I am the same flavor of asshole, but what about you?

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    The Title should be “Do You Use Filler Words?” not “Do You Needlessly Use Filler Words?”. At least I really, really, really think so. /s

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    Yes. I stick “honestly” in too many places, and just have a big issue always feeling like I need to qualify everything.

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    “Y’know what I mean?” or “Y’know what I’m saying?” is a common one. I was watching a high school football player on the news the other day, and he said “You know what I’m saying” a dozen times in his 30 second statement. He would use it multiple times in the same sentence: “We’re just going to keep doing what we’ve been doing, y’know what I mean, executing the fundamentals, y’know what I mean, keeping the defense pressuring their quarterback, y’know what I mean, and we’ll come out on top, y’know what I mean?” No exaggeration.

    My sister-in-law went through a period where she said “…and stuff” at the end of every sentence for a while.

    I once met a weird religious freak who started EVERY sentence with “It is written…” That was a weird one to try to have a conversation with. She would say it so fast, I couldn’t even figure it out for a minute, then I got it. Every sentence started with that. Very strange mental quirk.

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    Usually meant to increase the degree to which I’m being absurd or facetious. It’s a manner of showing contempt for the thing I’m describing. I use it to joke more than with actual dialog.

    But “kinda” probably happens in my daily vocabulary to such a degree that I’m unaware how much I use it. So, despite using this sort of word deliberately in certain situations, I’m also very guilty of using it everywhere else.

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    Yes I use needless filler words, but i use them because I need them ;)

    Low key is a really egregious one though because it is not designed to be a filler word. The thing about filler words is that every adverb is a filler word, as neuroneiro points out. Using them less makes you sound confident and precise. Sometimes they are useful or necessary. But by definition - a filler word. It is likely our overuse of adverts which trains us to use filler words like sort of, low key, kind of

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      I rather enjoy the greatly increased verbal verbosity that can be attained. However, I do generally prefer this effect when attained in relative moderation, it must be said. This way i provide only a small, tolerable, amount of verbal seasoning to the sentences i produce.

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      Exactly. As a non-native speaker, I sometimes intentionally add these words to make my speech sound less formal and more casual.

      On the other hand, most of the time I talk with other non-native speakers, so I’m not even sure they notice.

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    Filler words carry meaning, even if they don’t have specific definitions in context. Like, “like” has a dictionary definition, but if you use it as, like, a filler word, you aren’t using that definition (necessarily), but it still conveys something about how the speaker is thinking. They don’t just pop up in speech at random. I like catching them and trying to interpret why speakers insert them where they do.

    Like, “lowkey” is usually* sometimes used to soften harsh language e.g. “I’m lowkey gonna murder Sarah if she doesn’t stop chewing her gum with her mouth open”. Kinda how “kinda” works as a filler to tone down whatever is being said. I don’t actually want to murder Sarah, I just kinda want to murder her. I don’t even know if I would call them “proper filler words” in the same sense that “like” is, since they do have a particular function that “like” as a filler lacks. More research is needed it seems.

    For me, I let 'em fly. If I had to deliver a speech I would probably include fewer than I usually use in casual conversation, but I don’t hold with the rule that they’re strictly to be avoided. I think they’re neat.

    * edit: I just know how I’ve heard it used, I have no idea how it’s usually used. I’m lowkey not in the lowkey demographic.

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      “Like” can also be a softener.

      “I ate like 20 corn dogs” is different than “I ate 20 corn dogs.”

      The former means a larger than standard number of corn dogs, maybe six or seven. The latter means twenty.

      It has other practical uses as well.

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        I heard someone use “literally” the other day in a way that made absolutely no sense, even in the not-literally-correct way we’ve all gotten used to. Almost like its heading for the sort of fits-anywhere role that “fucking” has.

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          I wonder how many fuckings could be fit into a single grammatically correct sentence.

          Fuck is fucking fucked.

          For fuck sake this fuck fucked up the fucking, fucking.

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      Yeah, I think some is phatic and some is to subconsciously maintain rhythm to hold attention. Both of which are not only fine, but if not abused, preferred in many contexts.

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      Is this like a politically correct thing anyway? Because people are starting to say that describing things as “moronic” or “Insane” is ableist, and it seems to be young leftists who use ‘unhinged’ rather than anyone else


      A: “I uninstalled my dating apps this week”

      B: “No way! You must be totally un-hinged!”