I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.

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    It’s not minor at all. She sounds really manipulative and in desperate need of professional help. I hope she gets it before she hurts more people.

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      We were young and both had our issues, and we’re both better off separated.

      I’ve found a new relationship (when you find the right person, you understand why it didn’t work with anyone else) and I’m in a much better place overall.

      She’s now a he (FtM trans) and is much more stable as a result. He’s a teacher at a school in a city 4.5 hours away from me, and has remarried.

      I consider myself an LGTBQ+ ally, and I fully support my ex’s right to transition and be recognized as his preferred gender. And I can still say that my ex wife was a manipulative piece of work who left scars on me, so I just don’t want anything at all to do with him, even if he’s better.

      He deserves happiness, but he can be happy over there, 4.5 hours away.