• essell@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Speaking as a therapist, with a developed sense of empathy, and humor so dark the American police would shoot it, I think it’s possible to sustain both through awareness and choice

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      I walk that line very well. Dark humor helps me cope, and when combined with self-awareness, at least in my experience, allows me to keep my empathy/sympathy muscles well maintained. That is to say, making the dark joke with the awareness of its darkness allows me to continue to feel empathy. I dunno if that makes sense, but that’s how it works in my head and I continue to have an incredible sense of empathy, sometimes even to my detriment.

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      19 hours ago

      I don’t make any of the SpongeBob Adventures, I just find them and try to post one a day! I think these quotes are just from random people on the Internet.

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    All humor is dark humor. Name a joke that doesn’t revolve around someone’s pain?

    We laugh and cry for the same reasons. To cope with pain.

    There’s a reason the best comedians are depressed.

    “My mother never breast fed me, she always said she considered more of a friend” the late great Rodney dangerfield. His jokes are funny because no one loves him and he’s left as a husk emotionally. We laugh at that. One of the best comedians of all time and he’s funny because his life sucks.

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      The majority of jokes aren’t around pain. Don’t conflict your own limited humor with everyones.

      Here is one:

      There are 2 pizzas in the oven.

      Says one of the pizzas: “It is getting warm, isn’t it?”

      Says the other pizza: “EWW, a talking pizza!”

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        Knock knock jokes: the pain is you have been made to look foolish. You did not expect such an obvious trick. “Boo who” why are you crying it’s just a joke.

        Puns: how do people react to puns? With anger. People tell puns to get that reaction from people. The pain is how cringy the joke is.

        Fart noises and penises. Embarrassment at a social taboo. Something private is now public and shame is the pain of the joke. Or if some purposely the pain is the vulgarity of the joke teller and the feeling of disgust it causes .

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        How do we as a society react to a pun? With hatred and anger lol. There’s the pain. People who enjoy telling puns also enjoy that reaction to them.

        The pain is how cringey the joke is.

        Absurd humor is my favorite! But alas the joke is how shocked you feel by the absurdity. You were not expecting what was said.

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          I mean absurd kinda depends on the kind of joke ig. But there are people who like sharing puns or telling them to people who like puns too.

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            It all depends on the joke lol

            That’s why I said “tell me a joke that doesn’t involve pain”

            You are telling me TYPES of jokes so I’m telling you the Types of pain the might revolve around.

            I can’t give you specifics about a vague concept.

            Which joke would you like to talk about? Otherwise youre pretty much just saying “I’m sure there are jokes that aren’t like that”

            Which it’s fine if you want to belive that but it’s not really disproving what I said.

            For the record I like puns too I share them with people too. To which they always respond “ughhhhhhh” which is the normal response to a pun.