I saw plenty of women on Bumble, when the women had to message first, that had “I don’t message first” in their bio. I gave up on the apps. They are the worst thing on the planet for your self esteem and mental health.
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you_are_dust@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How does one know if they're narcisstic/with NPD?
3·5 days agoBest way would probably to be properly diagnosed. There’s a lot of overlap between different disorders and it’s probably not the best to try and diagnose yourself. The Internet can be really harsh at times so relying on social media for validation probably isn’t going to help anything. Keep level headed, nonjudgmental people close to you.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why do some racist, classist, homophobic ect people do "good" things sometimes?
5·6 days agoHumanity is shades of gray. Most people don’t do 100% morally and ethically good things or 100% morally and ethically bad things. Likewise it’s probably a small minority of people that are evil and strive to be as evil as possible at all times.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is there a word for this sort of behavior?
3·6 days agoSounds like a friends with benefits situation the more you describe it.
Agree 100%. I think the guy in the comic got his award prematurely. The rest of the sentence after “but” matters.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If you created a simulation that resulted in the creation of countless intelligent beings would it be unethical to end the simulation?
12·8 days agoIf this is a way for our simulation creator to decide to pull the plug without guilt, I guess just go ahead and do it. I was holding out hope that this was all real, but it has been getting more clear that it’s not.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•I don't know if this is AI. I hope it is though. I hope that bothers you.
6·11 days agoI hope it’s not AI. I hope this is a real meal someone made. Maybe some guy made dinner for his wife one night. He made this. She loved it. They’ve never been more in love.
It’s really bad. My kids pack a lunch because they said school food hurt their stomachs. I thought they were being dramatic/picky at first. Then I tried it myself. It’s so much worse than when I was in school.
She has what they call a chariot.
You lose me at the point where you’re pointing a gun at someone that is just trying to make a living. Stuff merchandise down your pants all you want I guess, don’t point a weapon at someone making minimum wage.
Keep fighting the good fight.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•a girl can never be hyperfeminine/sexual, chaotic, unfiltered online without ulterior motives allegations
6·22 days agoThe comments on this are a roller coaster. One of those ones that flips upside down and shit.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you need an LinkedIn to get a job in 2026?
6·25 days agoSeems like if you work in computer science type stuff you need it. I don’t work as a developer and I have never had even an interview come from LinkedIn. My most recent time using it was about 3 years ago and I had zero success with it.
Is this like a time share type situation?
I like it. Somebody get Vin Diesel on the phone.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•i have a fantasy of marrying a divorced dad and being the young cool stepmom
11·29 days agoWaiting patiently to be found by these women. I’m already divorced.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How did you feel after your first breakup?
2·1 month agoI actually felt similar after the end of my last relationship. It was causing me a fair amount of stress and when I ended it, I felt relief. My first break up was way too long ago to really recall my exact feelings. But normally it’s anger or sadness instead of relief. For me, the relief or feeling refreshed typically happens on reflection instead of immediately after.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What’s your most controversial opinion?
10·1 month ago100% agree with this. I feel like neo pronouns make communication way more complicated. I don’t care what people identify as. It’s easier to just only use a person’s name and nothing else if we are going beyond he/she/they.


I’m going to vomit.