the first time they see an adult body?

I’d be very concerned if a sighted police officer had never seen an adult.

This is incomprehensible. Which is to say, it’s not even a question.

Am I doomed

year 12

No.

What can I do to save him?

Just curious what makes you think there’s something you could do that would save him?

video games … we’ve wasted a lot of time on something that has little to no value

Fun has value. Joy has value. Pleasure has value. Indeed, one could even argue that they’re the only things that do have value.

Off topic!

Edit: that’s a compliment!

when we observe them they will always be in the same state?

The two particles are in different but directly related states. For example in some circumstances with two entangled photons, it will necessarily be the case that one photon has horizontal polarisation and the other vertical polarisation. The two will never have the same polarisation.

You can’t know which photon is in which state without measuring one. The effect of taking the measurement travels faster than the speed of light. Measurement is not manipulating though; you can’t say “I want this photon to be measured as vertically polarised”, you can only ask “what is the polarisation of this photon?”. So you can’t transmit information faster than light, unfortunately.