Unless there’s an expert who can tell me that no, if they’re diagnosed that way they have to be that way, in which case I’d question them as an expert. The brain is complex.

do you not think it’s rude to tell someone who identifies a certain way, that they might change their mind? do you not think it’s rude to act like an expert on their experiences, more than they are? do you not think it’s rude to act like their opinion on themselves only has merit if science backs it up, but act like your opinion is somehow above that standard?

when someone identifies as a different sexuality, as a different gender, it’s polite to give them the basic respect of acknowledging it. any of these things may change, and it’s OK if it does, but it’s very rude to point that out, as if they’ve never had that thought. it’s also invalidating - consider telling a trans person they might reconsider their gender. identification along the aro or ace spectrums deserves the same respect

respectfully, i would ask that you stop commenting on this situation, and reconsider whether your advice is actually contributing positively to the conversation

not sure that you were intending this, (maybe you replied to the wrong comment?) but your comment can be read in a bit of a “you’ll get over this aro/ace thing when you meet the right person”

no one ever talks about all of the people who had to ALLOW someone to sleep to the top, either, just the person who did!

this type of question is how i interpreted this meme. like the question was gonna be some “who would win, superman or goku” type shit LOL

new booty shorts idea

think it’s supposed to be a good AI (the acronym) (artificial insemination)

thought this was a (very late) april fools joke 💀 is this real? is there some recent / relevant reason for it?

SHOW US YOUR SHITTY ART!!!

as a man who is thirsty for men in sundresses

you’re real for that

reminder that this situation has been engineered by decades of a billionaire powered machine defunding education and capturing a significant portion of the country in a propaganda machine

like, yea, americans are dumb and shitty, but we’ve largely been made to be this way. it’s not inherent and it’s not unfixable (altho it’s not like it’s solvable overnight, ofc, it took a long time to get here and it’ll take a long time to get out)

i hate this comment so much

a) it’s so much more work to refute it than you going “NUH UHHH”

b) you can literally see it in this thread

c) wtf I LOVE BEING CALLED SILLY ACTUALLY??

anyways i see it mentioned a lot by lurking in the women’s stuff comm. and tbh i see enough of it myself just in my nornal feed to agree

this is true but i don’t think there are many brands of… this particular device, which are pure silicone. they’re out there, but they’re the minority

it’s snark, but it’s genuine, too. some people really haven’t heard it. but sure, i could have said it better, that’s fair

the issue is that there are women who have these traits independent of if they happen to belong this “costume”. it’s a look, but it falls within normal human variance. in essence, you’ve said any women who even vaguely has traits like this is a ghoul. besides, people should be allowed to choose how they look

it’s also using the bludgeoning of the oppressor on people you happen to have moral standing over. this meme is still ultimately about their fuckability. sure, you may find them (physically) unfuckable because you believe their appearance is a reflection of their morals. but it’s still not OK to reduce women to their fuckability. it’s the same shit people do when they misgender shitty trans people. it reduces baseline respect to privilege that can be revoked. that’s not baseline respect then lol

(aside, i don’t think the “happen to have marriages of convenience” necessarily follows from the outfit. it might, i guess, i haven’t really looked into the marriage success rates of this group of people. but it’s not like average success rates of marriage are anything to write home about, either)

finally, i would hope that the people in this thread who are being SUPER misogynist about it are like… putting you off. i feel like it’s not great if people are supporting misogyny in your not-misogynistic meme!

this could have been captioned “pedophile wives cabal” or something and i think that would have been fine. re: the above “using the bludgeoning of the oppressor”, it’s always worth questioning yourself about whether you’re dunking on them because they’re shitty people or because they’re women who happen to be shitty people

this post is why people say there’s a misogyny problem here

yea if it’s implying that men are only worth being with because of their looks, it’s sexist, yea. it’s not as sexist because there’s not a societally ingrained idea that a man’s core worth is in his looks. so it’s not like it’s equivalent. but it’s almost like there are different prejudices to different genders

or have you not heard enough people talk about women like they’re worthless because of a perceived lack of attractiveness

no, i just can’t read. it be like this

but i don’t really understand why you seem to get that genAI is bad, but reposted this regardless

ok, my mistake for misinterpreting the comment where you replied “yes” to the comment asking if you AI slopped this out

crazy for OP to make this meme outing themselves as an incel genAI user. couldn’t have tortured that info out of me

(and no, using genAI to make fun of genAI users doesn’t make it OK)