Shanghai?

Otherwise it’s sparkling cheese!

To be fair, nearly anyone can fuck themself regardless of gender

Edit: clarity

It doesn’t get any more apt than this

Another thing is that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing: you could plan a trip where you visit some places where you know no one and some where you might have a friend or acquaintance (if you have friends living outside of where you live, of course). I’ve found that makes a nice balance.

You could rent a car for those

Isn’t þ in Icelandic generally voiceless, as in ‘thin’ for example?