As someone in a city with a population of ~250k and only one gay bar: Hard dislike, if you aren’t in company of actual queer folks (or do outnumber them massively). I get that especially straight women see it as a safe place - but where there are straight women straight men usually follow - and at some point they outnumber us. And now I do not feel welcome at the only gay bar in town - it is most of the time essentially a bar with some queer decoration. Some gay bars in the next bigger city do not allow women for this exact reason. Others enforce it via kinky attire dress code (e.g. leather, rubber, lycra, puppys, etc.) - but that can be anhoying when you don’t have a specific kink for that dress code and this may not have the required outfit.

Who’s a good boy?

Which is also a pretty good tactic in Monopoly: try to buy as many houses as possible, but do not upgrade to hotels - exhaust the housing market- that way the other players cannot upgrade either

_/conspire This is at least the second time that I’ve read a question like this. Is OP the creator of an elaborate AR riddle which spans the whole world trying desperatly to make his riddles known?

I really like that. As a variation I’ve heard “What shall your gravestone read?” and then work backwards from that to make it happen. Currently I am struggling a bit with an answer for myself but I am working on turning something up. I appreciate your answer :)

This old blog post summarises a lot of pain points: https://d-shoot.net/kagi.html

Similar to Brave (and more recently Proton) I simply can’t trust them, despite liking the idea of their respective services.

It was okay while I was using it. Just a bit pricey. But I stopped using it when they started the whole “EUs GDPR doesn’t apply to us” non-sense. Simply not a company I can trust to handle personal data properly.