Making the claim that homophobes are all secretly gay downplays the harm they cause. It turns reframes it into “in-fighting” instead of a minority being oppressed/attacked.
Some politicians will be self-hating queer people who are weaponizing hate, but others will just be hateful straight people.



Maybe my wording could use some work; It didn’t mean that it would cause in-fighting, I meant that it reframes the homophobia as gay in-fighting.
A twenty-ish video that might explain things better, if you are up for it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vr_g_64oS9Q
The last three minutes are the summary.
Also, I am gay.