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Cake day: September 27th, 2026

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  • Victim blaming. I have seen it happening.

    SA warning

    It was “but they were both on drugs” and “but they were in a relationship”.
    Often from women.

    Then there’s the cherrypicking; one allegation was rape, the other that the guy was grooming her because he was much older than her. People got hung up on the age difference as something that shouldn’t be an issue, and ignored the much bigger issue: “what, now I can’t try to pick up young women anymore? You’re creating an athmosphere of fear and prosecution!” - No dipshit, you just can’t rape them.
    The same applies to the person who stands with the victim (that was me): “but I’ve seen you flirting with younger women too! Don’t be so sanctimonious!”

    Frankly, just trying to support her was a horrible experience. Can’t imagine how it must have felt for her. So brave to come forward.
    But I wouldn’t miss this experience for the world.
    I hope you’re doing OK.











  • All forms of communication have advantages and disadvantages. I’m old enough to still have written actual letters to lovers and friends. There’s something to be said for collecting your thoughts - sometimes for days - and putting them on paper in concentrated form.

    All in all I think the dangers of misunderstanding each other are just as big as with any other form.
    Unless you had some other type of effectiveness in mind.







  • tl;dr: it’s about the timezone database (edit: among other projects) which is “maintained by a group of volunteers. Originally founded by Arthur David Olson, the project is now led by Paul Eggert and Tim Parenti.”

    I know that this usually comes down to one person doing a lion’s share of the work. This applies to so many FOSS pojects, especially when their impact bleeds over into the non-FOSS world (and by now I think we can include Android in that). Yet the world of FOSS has never broken down even when one of these "one person"s quits. We know. But it might be scawy for people who live in proprietary la-la-land.

    Don’t get me wrong, this is important. But I find the article with all its dark javascript magic a little hyperbolic, sensationalist. Even the “plain” reading page is. Gigantic headers, large numbers etc.

    I will also add that the tz database isn’t huge, and it isn’t prone to constant change. It makes for great numbers but the whole issue is pretty pedestrian if you look a little closer.

    How many parts of closed systems that many people rely on are maintained by only 1 person (who would promptly be replaced by corporate if they quit)? I guess we just don’t have so much data on that because - surprise - they’re not Open.

    I could’ve written a similar article, but I would have written it differently.

    edit: I stand corrected on the crossed-out bit.
    I’ll also state very clearly that I agree with the topic, just not the way it is presented.
    And that I was fully aware that this is not only about the TZ databse when I wrote this.