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Cake day: October 13th, 2025

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  • Granted, but that’s not my problem with them.

    For one, I’m the weirdo wearing shorts in winter. Dunno if if call it a sensory issue, but I hate the feeling of long pants on my lower legs. I only tolerate it if I’m going to be outside more than a few minutes at a time.

    Secondly, I have almost a religious level of intolerance for ties of any kind. This one I’m more apt to call a sensory issue. I HATE feeling anything on my throat, and buttoning that top button will result in me complaining about it. And the tie itself reinforces that strangling feeling, and I just absolutely hate how they look on top of it. Ties of all kinds are one of the things on the top of my personal list of instant red button issues. (And by that I mean the list of things that will send me from chilling straight into actual rage mode)

    Also the cuffs give me a smaller dose of that same problem.

    No judgement for others wearing em, but if you expect me to then your on my shit list immediately.

    Thirdly, they feel more delicate than “normal” clothes, so I feel like I have to be hypervigilant at all times about damaging them or them getting dirty. And the material is so thin I can’t stand it.

    Everything else I wear is boring and all goes in the same laundry loads (no sorting lights and darks- even saying that feels racist). But it means paying attention how it’s washed and shit. I don’t got time to learn or care about that.

    All the ones I’ve written had white shirts, and that annoys tf outta me, but wouldn’t be a problem if they were more regular attire.

    I hate the jacket as well. The squareness of the shoulders really skeeves me out. The only jackets I ever wear are hoodies. If it’s cold enough to wear pants I might upgrade to a heavier one, but it’s so rare that I can’t remember the last time I had to do that. I also hate the look of dress pants and dress shirt without the jacket, so it’s just bad no matter what. But my jack needs to be kinda amorphous. (Not sure that’s the right word, but you get the idea I hope)

    The last 3 of 4 times I had to dress up were so rentals, so the shoes were a problem for me too. The socks were annoying, but just a small part. But given the shoes not being mine, they’re never broken in to my feet, so there’s that.

    I also almost always wear sandals, so having socks or any does on is less than optimal.

    Sure, maybe I dress like a slob, but I’m comfortable and until you can find a reason to give af, I’ll stay like that. I live in absolute terror of having a job with a uniform.

    So it’s not the lack of tailoring that’s the problem. That might make it 3% better.


  • That’s the most “normal” thing about them.

    I find people that enjoy suits (not the status of them, but the actual physicality of them) to be unhinged.

    I hate EVERYTHING about them. Unless I’m going to a sibling’s wedding, there is no reason I will ever wear one again in my life. I’ve hated every second of every time I’ve done so, and cannot imagine someone in their right mind looking it at all.

    If I had to do it for work, I’d better consistently be getting $100s of millions a day. And even then I would quit after a week.



  • I was gonna just say “yeah, that’s textbook demisexual” but at the end I see you realized that already.

    Not sure why you feel possibly invalid when it sounds like (based on this post alone) that you are the actual dictionary example.

    I’m still kinda figuring it out, but I’m thinking I’m double demi for now (not sure if there’s another word for it).

    For me I am far from completely nonsexual (basically allos’ only version of defining “asexual”), but it would only be important at all in a solid relationship (if I could even get that being demiro).

    I just don’t feel an urge to go out and “get some”, but if someone I felt familiar and safe with just landed in my lap naked, then something has a decent chance of happening.

    I consider that valid asexuality. It might be kinda “dictionary”-like too, but you don’t see a lot mentioned of people having the green and purple stripe (demiro/demisexual). Or at least I don’t.



  • My last car was a Camry, and it was huge compared to what I remember them as (my mom has an 80s one when I was a kid). I’ve downsized to a Corolla (after I destroyed the Camry whoopsie) now tho.

    And I have no idea what those alphabet/number soup cars even are. If they can’t get a real name thae they can go extinct. I’m not learning what an e45 is, or a ZQ73 is.

    But yeah they have gotten more unwieldy, and that shit needs to stop.

    But what I meant to say got lost in my other point, which was my opinion that even given the most safe shape and sizes possible, I think everything but sedans are ugly, just aesthetically speaking. I understand the practical reasons, but they’re all ugly.


  • And here I am, still thinking anything but sedans are ugly af. SUVs are the most hideous vehicle I’ve ever seen. Ugly and absolutely the worst possible kind of shape.

    Well 2nd worst. Trucks are worse since they tend to be taller. Plus I’ve never met a decent person who owns one of those tall ones. They’re all just chick size competitions, smallest dick finally wins in their eyes. If you absolutely have to have a truck, get one of those Japanese types that are almost as small as a real car that actually has a bed on it.

    Whoever started the trend of trucks getting bigger, taller, and fatter all while the bed is smaller than my tiny cars backseat should actually be executed. How many people are they responsible for killing?



  • I’ll watch like a clip of people doing “crazy” things like mailing a difficult shot, or some other high skill play.

    But I could not care less about team culture, league culture, specific players/coaches, championships, W/L records, etc.

    Even the Olympics all I care about is the sportsmanship of the world coming together to compete fairly as a show that outside politics we can all get along for this event. But I don’t care about watching any of it, I just like the humanity of it.

    Sports can bring out great does of skill, but I just wish it wasn’t such a default small talk thing. People will get mad at each other at work for liking the wrong team and they’ll rag on each other about issues that none of them have a hand in.

    Like… Just like it privately. It shouldn’t be such a huge part of your personality. I shouldn’t know who you like while actively trying to stay out of any and all discussion about it.


  • I fall to see any argument for one person controlling even 8 digits, much less any more.

    If you have even half a million of disposable money to spend, you shouldn’t be even close to be allowed a loan in any form. Being rich shouldn’t be a collateral for more money.

    Given that it’s a common way they increase their worth, they should be barred from utilizing it.

    Every dollar past 10 million should be gone right off the top, no exceptions.

    Enacting it should either be completely secret, or enforced on everyone here now, regardless of where they move after this point.

    That payday would fix a lot of immediate problems.

    Bring obscenely rich should be meet with obscene “punishment”. At least they would call being cut down to size punishment.

    I’d argue that stealing that much wealth and health care should be a capital crime. If I could bring them back so they could experience a capital punishment more than once, that would be justified IMO. That’s a harder sell to some, but there are no billionaires that should be allowed to live. Even the squeakiest clean (ethically speaking) one should be taxed and fined out of existence.








  • Miss me with that. We got a track that runs through my backyard where I grew up and I naturally fucking hate them.

    Loud af and sometimes they just park there for almost an hour at a time, idling, which is still loud af.

    Once when they were parked Mom saw somebody in the engine with binoculars. My sister’s bedroom is at the back of the house. (And at the time she was like 15) Most of the year there’s a good amount of leaf cover, but during winter and the beginning of spring those leaves are gone.

    Also the track is the reason our house flooded. Like FLOODED. As in up to 3 stairs away from the second level.

    These aren’t passenger trains, they’re heavy and noisy and looooonnnnnnng. I never timed them but at regular speed it would take more than 5 minutes to get past the house. Up to almost to 10 minutes.

    So yeah I hate trains. If they were passenger trains that would be gone almost as soon as they show up, and never just stopped and made noise (oh and that would usually be at least 45 minutes for them to move again), I’d change my tune.

    But years of 3-6 of those monsters a day still hits an absolute rage button in me.